TAMA KA.. WRONG GRAMMAR AKO!

Recently I had a bloody fight with my friend!! :) May nagsabi kasi sa kanya na mali daw yung mga grammar ko sa blog post na ginagawa ko and she agree sa comment nung friend nya!

She also told me that I should be open on criticism at ang tawag daw dun ay "Carefrontation” kuno, kase gusto daw nila ako mag grow and to have a better result.

Pwede maging honest? , this is my blog at gusto ko maging authentic dito, I just want to be myself, nung sinabi nya yun , I got mad! Really mad! naasar talaga ako , kase nung time na sinabi nya yun saken sa FB wala ako sa mood , wala nga ako plan to reply when she chat me.

Rule number 1 kung meron ka gusto I confront sa friend mo wag na wag sa SOCIAL MEDIA or TXT because it will cause World War 3! =) 

Yun ang nangyari samen , at inaway ko tlaga sya , lumabas yung dugong tondo saken haha, nasabi ko na ba sayo na for more than 20 years I live in tondo manila where the gangster and mga "Siga" Live :) and now we are now staying here in Cavite (lugar pa ren ng matatapang) haha .. Pero dont worry Harmless ako :)

What's the point bakit ko to sinusulat ngayon ? , syempre hindi para siraan yung kaibigan ko sa inyo , but I want to agree with her comment! 

Tama sila wrong grammar nga ako! I had a hard time in english grammar at eto yung isa sa weakness ko. so what?? =)

Nung sinabi nya yun saken grabe, "OUCH" ang sakit lalo na kung friend mo magsabe nuh, truth hurts ika nga :) 

For almost 1 year na ginagawa ko to first time ko lang makarinig ng ganung comment, ako kase usually pag meron ako natatangap na negative emails and comments I just ignore it , hindi ko pinepersonal kase alam ko ma stress lang ako.

Pero pag sa kaibigan mo galing yun eh syempre masakit talaga, pero alam mo before ko to simulan , nung nag decide ako gumawa ng blog, dame ko doubt sa sarili ko "panu kung hindi nila ako magustuhan" , kase nung nag-aaral pa lang ako hirap na hirap tlaga ako sa English subject , hindi ko nga alam yang mga adjective and adverb na yan eh! Haha , ang alam ko lang verb and noun :)

Pero mas nangibabaw saken yung desire sa puso ko yung passion to help other, to bless them with the knowledge and wisdom that I've learned and I want to inspire and encourage other! That’s my purpose why I’m doing all these things now.

Before sabihin yun saken ng friend ko, meron ako napanuod na training video about blogging ng isa sa magaling na marketer dito sa pinas , sabe nya dun when you do blogging ,hindi importante ang grammar kase wala naman daw tao na sobrang galing sa grammar.

Sila mismo alam nila na mali din ang grammar nila, ang importante ay maparating mo yung thoughts and idea mo sa reader ng blog mo , dahil sila mismong mga successful na marketer ay may struggle din sa grammar nila.

Then I also consult my friend na english teacher about that issue at gusto ko i- share yung sinabi nya saken. ”,salamat sa tiwala. Ndi isue ang gramar sa blog u since ndi kaw gramarian,ndi kaw nag-popost para s learning to read and speak English fluently, nagpopost kaw to inspire others for marketing,ke mali ang gramar its ok,alam q minimal lng naman"

Eto naman yung comment ng isa sa friend ko in Linkedin

You know I realize, sometimes in life it will test you how badly you want to achieve your goals, sometimes because of our weakness it limits and doubted us to do great things and for us to do the things that we want in life. 

Yun ang pummipigil sa pangarap naten, masyado naten iniisip yung sasabihin saten ng ibang tao.

Then we just stay in the box and do the safest thing because we avoid the criticism of other, ayaw naten yun, ayaw naten ng pain, ayaw na naten sumubok dahil mas nangingibabaw saten yung sasabihin ng ibang tao.

Criticism is good because it will make us a better person, I know the intention of my friend is good , hindi nya intensyon na saktan ako , she do it because concern lang sya saken and I really need to improve my English grammar :)

Kaya ang ginagawa ko I read lots of book , whenever I pray I do it in English and what's amazing is God send me a foreigner friend haha, napipilitan talaga ako to speak in English and it really stretch me on this area , I must say not to brag , I really improve a lot!

Pero hindi ko dapat ibuhos ang buong oras ko to speak and write well in English because there are more important things rather than that , I should be focusing more on my strength not on my weakness because first of all I'm not an English teacher , I don't teach how to speak fluently , I'm an entrepreneur =)

My purpose why I make my blog is to inspire and bless other sa mga natutunan ko in my business to share everything what I've learned on my mentor , that's my purpose and I do this not to impress but to bless.

I realize kung pakikingan naten lahat ng mga negative comments saten ng ibang tao it will limit us to act and to move on in life and one of the thing I've learn don't be bitter be better , wag na naten silang patulan , just thank them and pray for their welfare.

Kung lahat ng negative comments about you papatulan naten at makikipagtalo sa kanila , wala din naman mananalo eh, because we have different perspective sa buhay , kaya anu mangyayari may sasabihan sya sayo tapos sasagot ka, tapos sasagot sya, tapos sasagot ka uli, hahaba lang ng hahaba ang pagtatalo nyo at kung friend mo pa sya it can destroy your relationship with that person.

The bible tells us this “Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.” 2 Timothy 2:23

Look Manny Pacquiao nung nag-sisimula pa lang sya makilala sa boxing world maraming tao ang kinukutya sya sa english grammar nya tuwing ini-interview sya , pinag-tatawanan sya ng ibang tao , pero yun ba ang naging hindrance kay Pacquiao para makuha nya ang pangarap nya sa buhay?

Anu ginawa ni Manny Pacquiao ? Pinatulan nya ba yun? He just ignore it and focus on his strength which is boxing, and now Manny Pacquiao become the best boxer in the world and celebrities and political leader respect him so much. “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” James 4:10

Maybe right now there's a weaknesses in you that limit you to try and to move out on your box, never allow that voice to tell you that you are nobody, you are weak and to stop you to achieve your dreams, God has a wonderful plan in your life.

He's the one that will help you especially on the area that you are weak ("My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. 2 Corinthians 12:9) God's expertise is to use weak people for His glory.

There are two types of people that are reading my blog right now, those who like me and those who don't and if you like my blog at sa tingin mo na nakakatulong sayo yung mga na share ko dito I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart at kung ikaw yung tao na ayaw mo sa mga blog post ko, anu ginagawa mo dito? Hehe But seriously I want also to thank you because of you I became a better person, it drives me more to grow and to expand my territory.

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