What are the 5 Love Language?

God created us because of LOVE, God doesn't need us,He is perfect! He is God! pero ginawa nya pa ren tayo dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal nya saten.

Jesus demonstrates that unconditional love of God for us when He chooses to die on the cross to save us.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life”. John 3:16

Yan ang nagagawa ng Love and it is the most powerful force in the world!

You can do crazy things just because of Love right?

Naalala mo ba yung first time mong na-inlove? (^_^)

Naalala mo ba nung una mong nakilala yung bf/gf or yung spouse mo ngayon?

Naalala mo ba yung moment na tumitigil ang palagid mo at feeling mo kinakantahan ka ni Christian Bautista tuwing nakikita mo sya? (^_^) #kiligmuch

Naalala mo ba yung mga ka kornihan na ginagawa mo? Hehe

Di ba lahat ginawa mo sa kanya just to win that person’s heart (^_^)

Naalala mo ba yung mga sleepless night at kilig moment mo nung nararamdaman mo yung love at hindi ka nakakaramdam ng pagod sa pag-hatid kahit sa kadulo duluhan pa ng mundo nakatira yung taong mahal mo right? (^_^)

Kung isa ka ding parent na katulad ko, willing kang mag sacrifice para sa anak mo di ba?

Mas uunahin mo pa yung gusto nila kesa sayo at pati sariling buhay mo ibibigay mo para sa mga anak mo because of LOVE (^_^)

Alam mo ba na pwede mong i-express ang love in 5 different ways? 

Yes! Ang tawag dun ay LOVE LANGUAGES.

I discover that all of us have Love Languages, panu to?

Kung pinoy ka din katulad ko at kinausap kita ng tagalog syempre maiintidihan mo ako tama?

Pero kung tayong pinoy makikipagusap ng tagalog sa isang Amerikano at kahit gaanu pa kaganda ang sinasabe naten anu sa tingin mo ang mangyayari? Haha 

Malamang hindi tayo maiintindihan nun!

Get my point here?

Yun ang Love Languages , minsan yung ginagawa saten ng taong mahal naten ay hindi ang love languages naten at dyan nag-uumpisa ang conflict ng mga relationship kase hindi aware sa Love Languages.

Akala mo hindi ka mahal ng asawa mo, bf/gf mo, even your parents, Pero ang totoo kung panu nila ine- express yung love nila ay hindi pala yun ang love languages mo.

Pero ang totoo mahal na mahal ka talaga nila.

Alam mo nung natutunan ko to mas naintindihan ko yung sarili ko at yung mga taong nasa paligid ko, ginawa pala tayo ni Lord with different love languages to fill our Love tank.

There are 5 Love Languages and this are Quality Time, Physical Touch, Word of Affirmation, Gift and Act of Service and i learn this love language from Gary Chapman.

After I learn this 5 love languages I discover that my love languages is quality time and word of affirmation, pwede na din ang Gift! Hehe Joke (^_^)

Pero seriously yang dalawa na yan ang love languages ko, kaya pala gustong gusto ko to spend time with my love ones at gusto kong nakakarinig ng mga affirming words sa mga taong mahal ko ay dahil eto pala yung languages of love ko.

Ikaw anu yung Love Languages mo?

Para mas maintindihan mo tong mabuti I will explain the 5 Love Languages to you, I believe it will radically change your life kung hindi ka pa aware dito.

Importanteng malaman mo din to because it will improve your relationship with the people you love at magiging aware ka din how to show and express love to them.

QUALITY TIME

Sa ganitong love language ikaw yung tipo ng tao na gustong gusto mong binibigyan ka ng oras, gusto mo palagi sila nandyan sayo pag-kelangan mo sila, why? Kase dun mo nararamdaman that you are loved.

If you're a parent like me malalaman mo na ganito ang love languages ng anak mo when they always seek your attention and they always want to play with you or kung malalaki na anak mo, gusto nila palage na makipag-usap sayo at niyaya ka nila palagi lumabas to spend time with you.

Kung married person ka naman you can date your spouse weekly to spend time with him/her.

Most likely eto yung kanilang Love Languages, kase katulad ng daughter ko na mahilig makipag-laro saken halos araw-araw at tuwing tatanungin ko sya kung bakit? Sasabihin nya saken na happy sya na nakikipaglaro saken dahil love languages nya ang quality time at duon ko napaparamdan na mahal na mahal ko sya.

WORD OF AFFIRMATION

Dito naman gustong gusto mong nakakarinig ng mga word that uplift and encourage you like"I Love You", "I Care for You" , "I Miss You", "You are Important to Me" , "I Believe in You", "I'm Proud of You", "You are Amazing" and so much more.

Simple lang naman to eh, pag sinasabi mo to sa mga taong mahal mo at nag-iiba yung mood nila at nakikita mo na nagiging Masaya sila sa mga words na sinasabi mo and I'm sure eto yung love language nila.

Katulad ko pag nakakarinig ako ng word of affirmation sa magulang ko it really lift me up and encourage me, pero I suggest na maging habit mo to at lage mong sinasabihan yung mga taong mahalaga sayo ng mga word of affirmation and when you see something good about them say it!

PHYSICAL TOUCH

The word itself, may mga tao kase na gustong gusto nila na niyayakap sila, a tap them on their back at kapag nikipag beso beso sa kanila and when their spouse kisses them or even when their spouse make love w/ them (para sa mag-asawa only ah) (^_^)

If you are a parents, it is very important to kiss and hug your children before they go to school and when they come back home.

Katulad ko every time na hinahatid ko yung anak ko sa school bago ako umalis I will kiss her and say I love you at bago din sya matulog I will hug and kiss her, simple lang pero 2 love languages na yung pinakita ko.

Dito mo kase mapaparadam yung love mo sa kanila kung eto yung love languages nila or even rubbing their heads when you see them malaking bagay na yun sa kanila.

If you are married, just kiss your spouse and hug your spouse every day and with this simple act it will have tremendous effect on your relationship.

ACT OF SERVICE

When you take care the people you love maybe your spouse, your children or someone special to you they will feel that they are loved.

Kapag pinag-luluto mo ang asawa mo at anak mo, kapag inaasikaso mo yung mga taong mahalaga sayo or kung may saket sila at  inaalagaan mo sila at ginagawa mo ang lahat just to serve them.

Kaya alam ko na mahal na mahal ako ng mga magulang ko kase nung bata pa lang ako inaasikaso nila ako palagi at tuwing papasok ako sa school lage ako hinahatid ng daddy ko.

GIFT

Eto yung pinaka paborito ko sa lahat! Hehe

Napaka-gandang love languages neto di ba? Kahit hindi ko to love languages gusto ko pa ren to hehe.

pero seriously baka ma-misinterpret mo to, it doesn't mean na pag eto yung love languages ng taong mahal mo eh willing ka gumastos ng malaki para sa kanila!

It’s up to you kung milyonaro at bilyonaryo ka (^_^)

Pero panu naman kung simpleng tao ka lang? Panu na?

You can still express it even in simple tokens kase hindi naman mahalaga yung amount nung ibibigay mo sa kanila kaya nga may saying na "the thought that counts"

Dahil sa pag-bibigay mo ng tokens pinaparamdam mo sa kanila na naalala mo sila at mararamdaman nilang mahal mo sila kahit "Choknut" pa yung ibigay mo sa kanila eh.

For example, Mern kang crush na crush na crush sa school nyo or sa office mo ngayon tapos hindi kayo close ni hindi kayo nag-uusap.

Tapos all of the sudden nilapitan ka nya at binigyan ka nya ng isang pirasong candy! Hehe

Anu magiging reaksyon mo? Kahit hindi mo sabihin saken alam ko super kikiligin ka! Haha

Baka nga sa sobrang special nung nag-bigay sayo ng candy eh baka itago mo pa sa wallet mo yung wrapper nun eh!

Baket ko alam? Kase ganun ako! Hehe tinatago ko yung mga bagay na binibigay saken ng tao mahalaga saken.

No amount of gift can satisfy you kung hindi naman to galing sa taong mahal naten di ba? kahit na candies lang yan at galing yan sa taong mahal mo malaking impact yun sayo.

Pero hindi ko naman sinasabi na tipirin mo sila kung afford mo bumili ng mga expensive gifts go ahead basta kaya mo at hindi mo ipapangutang.

Kung ikaw manliligaw tapos eto love languages nung liligawan mo siguro iniisip mo ngayon "Naku mamumulubi ako neto" 

Alam mo tsong etong love languages neto is not being materialistic; yes may mga tao dyan na pwedeng mag take advantage sayo, “turo dun, turo dito, bili dun, bili dito,” pero heloooww! Kung obvious naman na pera lang ang habol sayo eh layuan mo na yan pare.

Ang tinutukoy ko dito ay yung mga tao na kahit "fish ball" at "kwek kwek" lang ang i-pakain mo sa kanila eh tuwang tuwang pa ren sila, yun ang totoong love kase they value the person na nag-bibigay sa knila , hindi sila naka focus sa material na bagay.

These are the 5 love languages and I hope makatulong to sayo at syempre ma-apply mo ito sa mga taong mahal mo.

I recommend na gawin mo yung limang to sa kanila for you to find their love languages and remember love is not about feeling.

Love is an action and it is your decision to love even if there are times that you don't feel doing it.

Love is not about feeling, true love is deciding to love that person because you're feeling will subside may mga time na hindi mo talaga feel eh at dyan nag-kakamali ang iba.

Akala nila porket hindi na nila nararamdaman yung kilig at yung "spark" dun sa tao they get confuse on their feeling.

Jesus Christ when He was nailed on the cross, He does it because of Love, do you think when He was hanging on the cross feel na feel nya ang Love? I don't think so!

Remember that Jesus was also 100% human like us, He has emotion, I believe nung nakapako sya sa Krus halo halo ang nararamdaman nya.

Maybe He was in pain, in grieving and even feels angry and despairs why? Because those people that He helps betray Him and let Him to be crucified!

Pero pinili pa reigns in Jesus to Love us, He shows it for us and it is the perfect expression of Unconditional Love.

Kaya anu pa ginagawa mo express that love to the people that you love and make this world a better place (^_^)

Invest in your relationship my friend.

"Together Towards Radical Change"

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